Here's the post that I knew I was going to have to write, and I highly recommend that you read it. It's one of the most cancerous but unspoken issues in our society today, and with the introduction of tablets and smartphones, it's only become more dangerous.
I'm talking about porn. I don't know where you stand on it, whether you think it's ok, something to be pushed under the carpet, or my position: downright evil. The point is that porn, in any sort, either hard, soft, violent, or child-associated is a thousand times more accessible than ever. Fifty years ago, you had to go to the nearest drugstore and buy it under the counter and drive home in shame with it. Today, all you need is a 4G connection and you can view adult content 24 hours a day, almost anywhere in the civilized world, from the palm of your hand. Jason Byassee says it better than I could. I recommend reading his opinion on how it's changed.
For me as a soon to be married man, this is beyond concerning for my future. I don't want my wife to have to live in fear of me comparing her to a woman on a two dimensional screen. I don't want my sons to be cycling images of naked women and sexual violence in their minds when they start junior high. And I sure as hell don't want my little girls to eventually marry a man who doesn't cherish her or think she's good enough compared to what he's seen.
Don't believe me? Looks at the stats.
I'm talking about porn. I don't know where you stand on it, whether you think it's ok, something to be pushed under the carpet, or my position: downright evil. The point is that porn, in any sort, either hard, soft, violent, or child-associated is a thousand times more accessible than ever. Fifty years ago, you had to go to the nearest drugstore and buy it under the counter and drive home in shame with it. Today, all you need is a 4G connection and you can view adult content 24 hours a day, almost anywhere in the civilized world, from the palm of your hand. Jason Byassee says it better than I could. I recommend reading his opinion on how it's changed.
For me as a soon to be married man, this is beyond concerning for my future. I don't want my wife to have to live in fear of me comparing her to a woman on a two dimensional screen. I don't want my sons to be cycling images of naked women and sexual violence in their minds when they start junior high. And I sure as hell don't want my little girls to eventually marry a man who doesn't cherish her or think she's good enough compared to what he's seen.
Don't believe me? Looks at the stats.